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The Reality of Our Dreams

Many of us like to imagine having a life that we don’t have.

We like to imagine having luxury cars, nice houses, and being in a certain career or relationship.

We imagine that when we get those things it’ll make us so happy, and the dreaminess of it all won’t ever fade.

But the reality is different. If you get that life, it’ll become normal to you like the life you have now is normal to you.

You’ll get used to the luxury cars and nice houses, and the dream career.

And the same thing goes for imagining a dream man or woman.

If you do get that dream person, eventually they’ll become normal to you, like the people in your life now are normal to you.

You’ll begin to see them in a natural way, the way you see everyone else in your life.

The dreaminess of it all will gradually fade.

Which is why you can’t bank on those dreams to be the thing that’ll make you happy. Because eventually those dreams become normal, and what will make you happy then?

How will you find happiness, once you’ve received everything you thought would make you happy?

Be Real

Being realistic about life, is very important.

It’s one thing to want things, to have goals, and to want to go places in life.

But it’s something completely different to have a well thought out plan, and to be willing to take the necessary steps to carry out that plan.

I’m very much a dreamer so it’s easy for me to get caught up in “la la land” and want everything to come to me.

I can spend hours imagining my ideal life and wishing everything I desire would just fall into my lap.

But the reality is, that’s not life & it will never be that way.

The majority of people who have what they want, have gone after it, & the rest of us have to do the same.